End of Life Doula Care

I have been certified by the University of Vermont as an end-of-life (eol) doula. This is an emergent practice that began for me when I guided my own beloved mother through her end-of-life transition. That work, in those final months, weeks, and days meant being deeply present with and for her. It manifested as pure expressions of love and care. Your experiences guiding your loved ones through the end of life may feel similar. But what eol doula care can also be, for you and your loved ones, is the intentional acts of planning those final months, weeks, and days. Planning who will be present with you, and how. Planning how, where, and by whom you will received the kinds of care you want. Planning can also mean ensuring that your body and spirit are honored in the period directly after your passing. If you need support with planning or if you are looking for additional support for yourself or a loved one at your end-of-life, please feel free to reach out at jenrittner (at) gmail (dot) com.

Directory of Local Services

For those seeking end-of-life support services for themselves or loved ones, the following resources are available in the Essex, Passaic, and Morris County, NJ areas. Please note that listed services are not an indication of endorsement. Please reach out to me directly if you have any questions.

  • Compassionate Care Hospice, an Amedisys Company, 300 Broadacres Dr Suite 275, Bloomfield, NJ 07003, (973) 916-1400

    Hospice of New Jersey, 400 Broadacres Dr #1, Bloomfield, NJ 07003, (973) 893-0818

    Hospice the Inc, 3 High St, Glen Ridge, NJ 07028, (973) 429-0300

    Barnabas Health Home Care and Hospice, 95 Old Short Hills Rd, West Orange, NJ 07052, (888) 724-7123

    Compassionate Hospice, 1373 Broad St, Clifton, NJ 07013, (973) 916-1400

    Rosepetals Hospice, 825 Bloomfield Ave, Verona, NJ 07044, (973) 239-0072

    Montclair Care Center, 111-115 Gates Ave, Montclair, NJ 07042, (973) 746-4616

    NJ Palliative Care, 427 Bloomfield Ave #406, Montclair, NJ 07042, (201) 343-2769

    Palliative Care Overlook, 99 Beauvoir Ave, Summit, NJ 07901, (908) 522-5329

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    Dr. Marty Tashman, 622 -624 Valley Road, Upper Montclair, New Jersey, 07043, 1-888-281-5850

    Lewis Pagano, 5 Roosevelt Pl Suite B-1, Montclair, New Jersey, 07042, 973-780-6186

    Michael Lepak, 103 Park Street, 4th Floor, Montclair, New Jersey 07042, 973-380-9381

    Diane Davis, 94 Valley Road, Montclair, New Jersey 07042, 917-885-9139

  • Garden State Threshold Choir, Judy Hahn, (973) 222-7360, gardenstate@thresholdchoir.org

    Musicians on Call

    Music and Memory program at RWJ Barnabas Hospital, 973-370-8134, megan.knight@rwjbh.org

    Garden State Music Therapy Services, (732) 379-0232, Madison Indyk, MT-BC

    Cathy Ekeland (Harp) Washington, NJ, cathyharpnsoul@gmail.com, 908-303-8389

    Gail Frantz (Violin, viola) Lake Hopatcong, NJ, Gailfrantz@optonline.net, 908-963-6674

    Karen Peterson (Harp), Jersey City, NJ, kleepet@gmail.com, 201-344-7728

    SoothingHarp.com

    EnjoyTheHarp.com

  • Healing Hearts, Jackelin Santiago, 843 Rahway Ave, Woodbridge, NJ 07095, santiagolcsw@gmail.com, 732.362.6987

    Enlightened Path Healing, Montclair, New Jersey 07042, 973.435.2684

    Rose Gold Wellness, 39 S Fullerton Ave, Ste 1, Montclair, New Jersey, 07042, 862-622-6289

  • Creature Comfort Pet Therapy, 973-285-9083, info@ccpettherapy.org

    The Bright & Beautiful Therapy Dogs, 80 Powder Mill Road, Morris Plains, NJ 07950, (973) 292-3316

    Therapy Dogs International, 88 Bartley Road, Flanders, New Jersey 07836, 973-252-9800, therapydogsinternational@gmail.com

  • Hackensack Meridian: Mountainside Hospital Pastoral Care Services

    UUCM Pastoral Care Team

    Union Baptist Church: Bereavement / Pastoral Care Services

    Lotsa Helping Hands, Montclair area community spaces

    Cake, End of Life Planning

    Torch, End of Life Planning

    CaringBridge, Community support platform

    Meals-on-Wheels

    Meal Train

    Toni’s Kitchen

    Rest & Relax Cleaning, 973 783-7777

    Gaia Gardens, Yard Care, (973) 495-3755

    Rosaspina Florist, 74 Church St, Montclair, NJ 07042, (973) 509-1999

    Clores Flowers & Gifts, 590 Valley Rd, Montclair, NJ 07043, (973) 744-2291

    Tiny Spoon Chef, Personal chefs in NJ

    Jersey Girl Cafe, Personal Meal Prep

    Jerry’s Estate Liquidator, 229 Glenridge Avenue, Montclair, New Jersey 07042, (908) 723-4190, gdeltufo@aol.com

  • Arden Courts Memory Care Community, 510 Prospect Avenue, West Orange, NJ 07052, WestOrangeArdenCourts@promedica.org, 973-736-3100
    Aging and Disability Resource Connection

  • Department of Human Services: Division of Aging Services, PO Box 812, Trenton, NJ 08625-0812, 609-588-6501 or 800-792-8820

    FOCUS, Hispanic Center for Human Dev., Inc., 441-443 Broad St., Newark, NJ 07102, 866-903-6287

    Essex County Prosecutor’s Office - Elder Abuse

    1-877-582-6995 (For suspected elder mistreatment in long-term care facilities, in-state line).

    609-943-4023 (For suspected elder mistreatment in long-term care facilities, out-of-state line).

    For more information, contact the Essex County Prosecutor's Office of Victim-Witness Advocacy at 973-621-4687

    Montclair Senior Fraud Helpline, Senior Fraud Education & Protection Program  1-877-746-7850

  • Grove Pharmacy, 123 Grove St, Montclair, (973) 744-5550

    Montclair Pharmacy, 732 Valley Rd, Montclair, NJ 07043, (973) 744-2113

    Glen Ridge Pharmacy, 855 Bloomfield Ave #1, Glen Ridge, NJ 07028, (973) 743-5900

    Serket, 8 Church St, Montclair, NJ 07042, (973) 337-6031

    CVS (Various locations)

  • Unitarian Universalist Congregation of Montclair, 67 Church Street, Montclair, NJ 07042, (973) 744-6276

    Bahai Community of Montclair, Montclair, NJ 07043, (973) 783-4317

    Bnai Keshet, 99 S Fullerton Ave, Montclair, NJ 07042, (973) 746-4889

    St. John’s Episcopal Church, 55 Montclair Ave, Montclair, NJ 07042, (973) 746-2474

    First Congregational Church, 40 S Fullerton Ave, Montclair, NJ 07042, (973) 744-4856

    Masjid Al-Wadud mosque, 222 Bloomfield Ave, Montclair, NJ 07042, (973) 569-0077

    Union Congregational Church,176 Cooper Ave, Montclair, NJ 07043, (973) 744-7424

    Congregation Shomrei Emunah, 67 Park St, Montclair, NJ 07042, (973) 746-5031

    Rising Mt. Zion Baptist Church, 27 Monroe Pl, Montclair, NJ 07042, (973) 744-3012

    Buddhist Compassion Relief, 50 Commerce Rd, Cedar Grove, NJ 07009, (973) 857-8666

    Empty Cloud Buddhist temple, 29 Ridgeway Ave, West Orange, NJ 07052

    Islamic Center of Passaic County, 257 Pershing Rd, Clifton, NJ 07013, (973) 278-7070

  • Caggiano Memorial Home, 62 Grove St, Montclair, NJ 07042, (973) 744-6667

    Martin’s Home for Service, 48 Elm St, Montclair, NJ 07042, (973) 746-2158

    Moriarty Funeral Home, 76 Park St, Montclair, NJ 07042, (973) 744-4346

    Levandoski-Grillo Funeral Services 44 Bay Ave, Bloomfield, NJ 07003, (973) 743-6969

    Cotton Funeral Services, 130 Main St, City of Orange, NJ 07050, (973) 675-6400

    Villa Americas Funeral Services, 279 Roseville Ave, Newark, NJ 07107, (973) 483-4255

    Island Memorial Funeral Home, 49 S Munn Ave, East Orange, NJ 07018, (973) 678-5555

    Alvarez Funeral Home, 240 Mt Prospect Ave, Newark, NJ 07104, (973) 483-7000

    Prout Funeral Home, 370 Bloomfield Ave, Verona, NJ 07044, (973) 239-2060

    Asian Indian Funeral Services - The Hindu Funeral Home, 75 Woodbridge Ave, Highland Park, NJ 08904, (732) 600-3043

    Rosedale Cemetery, 408 Orange Rd, Montclair, NJ 07042, (973) 673-0127

    Mount Hebron Cemetery, 851 Valley Rd, Montclair, NJ 07042, (973) 744-1380

    Immaculate Conception Cemetery, 712 Grove St, Montclair, NJ 07043, (973) 744-5939

    Northern New Jersey Veterans Memorial Funeral Services and Cemetery, 75 N Church Rd, Sparta Township, NJ 07871, (973) 896-2460

    All Faiths Cremation Services, 6119 Tyler Pl, West New York, NJ 07093, (732) 804-0295

    Natural Burial

    Steelmantown Cemetery 327 Marshallville Road, Marshallville NJ 08270, 609-628-2297

    Orland’s Memorial Chapel - Natural Green Burial, 1534 Pennington Road, Ewing Township, New Jersey 08618, (609) 883-1400

  • New Jersey Sharing Network (organ/tissue donation), 691 Central Ave, New Providence, NJ 07974, (800) 742-7365

    State of NJ Advance Directives Information

    NHPCO's CaringInfo program for Patients and Caregivers

    NJ Area Agency on Aging

 

Developing a Vigil Plan

 
 

vigil light

Event Planning

Who: Primary participants, speakers, singers, anointers, spiritual practitioners

What: Music, visual art, prayers, scents, lotions/oils, spiritual objects, textures, lighting, affirming words, photos, films / TV

Where:  Ideal locations for the bed + visitor seating; outdoor visibility, indoor decor objects

When: Preferred times of day for family and other vigil participants

How: Instruments, songs, readings, memories, massage, guided imagery, specific places for touch (hair, feet, hands, back), rituals + special journal or guest book

obituary

Writing the Obituary

What do you want people to know about the life you lived? Which of your ancestors and descendants will you honor in this final statements?

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Final service clothing

How would you like to be dressed for your final viewing? What items would you like to take with you through your transition?